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Post by Slinger on Jan 20, 2024 11:07:04 GMT
I'm really not sure I could cope with having " staff"; my socialist roots are showing again. I certainly could never treat somebody working for me like trash. I'd happily bollock them for not doing a proper job if the situation arose and they had not, perhaps, listened to a prior warning, but treating them like the dirt on the soles of my shoes, never.
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Post by stanleyb on Jan 26, 2024 21:16:02 GMT
Another couple of days, and another sets of shocks. Some of them I prefer to write about however once back on English soil... I took a trip to one of the forts once operated by various countries involved in the slave trade. I ended up getting a tour of the place that was a bit more in depth compared to what the daily stream of tourists are shown or told, partly because my tour guide was also the guy I befriended years ago and who isn't employed by local government, unlike most people at the fort. He does however have unrestricted access to the place, and I'll leave it at that. We stayed with an acquaintance from the UK who has now retired there and is busy setting up a grocery shop. She has a maid, who turned out to have gotten married in December last year. Her age was told to me as being 23, but I am not so sure that is totally correct. I would say that it's more likely she is in her late teens. Her husband is 40 and European. Apparently, it isn't uncommon for European men to come over and look for a young local bride. The girls families tend not to object to those marriages if the grooms are financially sound. Adultery is also not uncommon on both the male and female side. One female that I met has a boyfriend who shows up during the week when her husband is off to the big city to work. By the time he gets back home for the weekend, the boyfriend has cleared off. She has four kids. I hesitate to guess who the fathers are. Driving on the motorway between cities is scary to the extreme. It tends to be mainly one lane traffic, with freight trucks and "taxis" competing for the road space. Overtaking is all part of the game, including being overtaken whilst busy overtaking. Once the sun goes down that becomes a real kamikaze effort, especially when many of the vehicles don't have their lights on. With no speed limits on some stretches, I am now unwilling to be on the motorway after 6PM. Military or police road blocks are common on the motorway after 5PM. I reckon that I went through at least 20 over a 4 hour journey. It's mainly the mini buses that I saw getting waived to park at the side of the road by machine gun waiving officers. The bus and taxi drivers often get subjected to a shakedown according to my chauffeur, because they tend to have cash on them. We missed getting stuck in traffic when a lorry jack knifed at the other side of the road just minuted before we arrived at the spot. Luckily there was just about enough space to wiggle between the front of the truck and a tree. Had he been another ft or so on our side of the road we would have got stranded.
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Post by rfan8312 on Jan 27, 2024 2:54:32 GMT
All of this blows my mind. There are too many questions to even ask but can you say after witnessing all of this and comparing/contrasting with what you've seen in UK and South America has your opinion of humanity/people changed in any way?
The place that scares me is India. And a few middle eastern countries. Even if it's ignorance, at this point, I never want to step foot in any place over there. I'd still rather be in this place in Africa.
The mistreating of the staff...thats one that you can't unsee.
For me the biggest culture shock was Paraguay. Broad daylight busy bustling city center in Asuncion city and every store had an armed guard with a machine gun in front of it. As you walk, if you're white, vans pull up next to you and open the door yelling to get in as a lift lol. An entire mall of stolen goods is there. The potholes in the road reveal 20 layers of thin asphalt. Each new paving much of the money was pilfered so only a thin sheet of asphalt is layed, then erodes again, and repaved again.
A busy city center looks much different and hectic and dangerous in certain parts of the world than in most places we've all seen. In a 1st world country it's possible to stroll and not be seen and be lost in your thoughts with your headphones on. In places like which are described in this thread you are being watched the entire time. Everybody is connected a lot more in order to survive.
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Post by stanleyb on Apr 3, 2024 16:41:19 GMT
In one of my posts I mentioned the state of the electrical infrastructure there, but didn't want to post any pictures from the spot just in case. So here is a pic to give you an idea of what I meant.
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Post by MartinT on Apr 3, 2024 19:24:58 GMT
Oh gosh, but I remember Namibia being similar - in Windhoek, at least.
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